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In our last blog, we offered a few tips on things to do and activities that Home Instead advises family members to “entertain” loved ones living with a memory loss or dementia - please refer to our recent post dated June 20th. Give us some activities you’ve created for a loved one - tell us how you entertain someone with memory loss.. post in the comment below.
We’re continuing here with more tips on caring for someone with Alzheimer’s in Austin:
Use a card table, craft table, dining room table or a garage bench. Provide the containers and allow your loved one to sort them in his or her creative way. Christmas in July is just fine. The following example shows a meaningful activity that a family caregiver and her mother could do together:
I came up with the idea of making necklaces out of cereal and string to keep Mom busy in the morning. Stringing the cereal onto the string required concentration and she enjoyed doing it. I took the activity a step further and decided to give the necklaces to Mom’s grandchildren. When I shared my idea with her, she was excited and wanted to make more.
Another popular location for meaningful activities is the garden. You and your loved one can spend many hours in the open air with activities such as pulling weeds, watering plants, cleaning dead plants from pots and re-planting with colorful flowers. You can also gather fallen leaves and put them in trash bags, or even plant bulbs. If your loved one wanders, just be sure to secure the garden.
Working with the laundry is a familiar activity. All you need is clean laundry and a basket. You and your loved one can arrange, fold and stack laundry such as bath towels, kitchen towels, pillow cases, etc.
You can still share cooking as an activity with some changes in approach. Keep your loved one from the stove and electrical appliances, and remove dangerous utensils.
Use mealtime clean-up as an activity. Tell your loved one that you will set the table if he or she will clear it following the meal. It is important that the person with Alzheimer’s receives cues to get started and instructions on where to place the items near the sink. If you have a dishwasher, load it, but keep a few plastic items out to wash in sudsy water. Your loved one can wash and you can dry and put the dishes away.
The following example shows how a family caregiver involved her sister, Rebecca, in a mealtime activity:
When it came time to fix dinner each night, Rebecca would want to help, but was no longer able to cook step-by-step or handle the hot foods. So I encouraged her to set the table, butter the bread, and select a juice so she could still be involved. The most challenging thing for me was to keep Rebecca busy and occupied, yet safe at the same time. It was well worth the extra effort. I could tell Rebecca was happy to be included.
Sweeping and dusting are safe and useful tasks. Be sure to remove collectibles and valuables before initiating these activities. You can spend many happy hours looking at magazines with pictures. Ask friends and relatives to save them for you.
Following are some additional suggestions to use with your loved one as you do activities together:
• Plan each day one step at a time.
• Be flexible, if something doesn’t work, go to plan B.
• Accept outside support when it is offered.
• Speak slowly and refrain from asking your loved one
any questions.
• Right now is forever, so enjoy it.
The best way to approach any activity is to simply think how you would like to be treated.
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